Margie’s top six “ah-ha” moments. Or, why mentors are important.
I’ve been tremendously fortunate to have smart, candid folks looking after my best interest early on and throughout my PR career. Here’s a list of six statements various mentors–including bosses, friends and family–have made to me. I’m ever so grateful; I would not be where I am today had they not uttered these words:
“Your writing sucks”–if one of my first bosses had not been so honest, I would not have made it my mission to become a strong, confident writer. I promise to keep working at it, SH.
“You interrupt people too much”–I like to talk. Thankfully, one of my early mentors told me to take a breath and listen to folks more often. That Lady is a one smart lady. But um, I’m much better with not interrupting folks at work than I am at home…sorry, honey!
“You are memorable”–when hear these words, it is always an “ah-ha!” moment. It’s true, folks I work with usually don’t forget me–for better or for worse. Now I realize that my memorable personality is half of what makes me a successful public relations professional; once you understand your unique skill set, you can then learn how to leverage it to achieve your goals. Hat tip to Barbara, Dave, Joe and John for helping me figure this one out.
“If someone asks for your opinion, give it”–you are a PR pro, not a “yes” man. If someone asks for your opinion in a meeting or your edits to a document–give them. With confidence. If you truly don’t have anything to contribute, re-assess your role in the project. Wise words from a wise gal. Thanks, Jen!
“Defy mediocrity”–amen. Thanks and R.I.P., DHC.
“You catch more flies with honey than vinegar” –translated into the workplace: you get a better work product by showing respect than fostering fear. From my mother I learned to begin every critique with something positive. Her parenting technique is one of my signature management techniques; and it has worked wonders for me for nearly 10 years. Thanks, mom!
No doubt your work approach has been influenced by someone’s wise words or leadership; share your inspiration and ah-ha moments in the comments!
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